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Salman to launch bodyguard Shera's son in Bollywood

Posted: 14 Feb 2013 12:19 PM PST


Superstar Salman Khan, who has given a break to many newcomers in Bollywood, now intends to launch his bodyguard Shera's son in the film world.

Salman had launched Shera in films with a song-and-dance sequence in the title track of his film 'Bodyguard'. Shera appeared in the song alongside the 47-year-old actor and Katrina Kaif.

Now gossip mills are abuzz that Salman is likely to launch Shera's son in Bollywood.
Recently Salman was seen praising Shera's 20-year-old son Tiger. "With his looks and personality we already have a winner. At 20, he is so focused and determined," Salman had said.
"It is true that he would be launching my son Tiger in Bollywood. It's a great thing. He has said that (launching his son) which means he would have seen something in my son," an excited Shera told .
On who would be backing the film, Shera said, "Things are in progress."
Shera has been by Salman's side for the last 15 years and they share a close bond.

Everything you wanted to know about men

Posted: 14 Feb 2013 12:17 PM PST

We give you a small ready reckoner on how men behave in relationships...

Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive.

It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.

A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.

When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do.

Guys have strong passion to change.

Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll see that he is nervous.

When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just saying, "Please come and listen to me"

When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen.

If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something. (He generally has a lot of frustration in mind then)

Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

Guys like femininity not feebleness.

A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him. (So girls you should think of making the first move)

A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

Guys love girls who can cook.

Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

A guy's friend knows everything about him.

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Amitabh Bachchan all set to act in a daily soap

Posted: 13 Feb 2013 08:23 AM PST

The 70-year-old actor will feature in a mega-budget television serial which will go live later this year

At a time when his chips were down, television resuscitated Amitabh Bachchan's career. And now, 13 years after his game changing appearance as television's most popular game show host, Amitabh Bachchan is happily paying his dues.

TOI has learnt that Bachchan, who recently wrapped up the sixth season of Kaun Banega Crorepati, is preparing to embrace the medium in a different way.

Buzz is the 70-year-old star will top-line a daily soap that is set to go on air later this year. The project, which, say sources, is being co-produced by his banner ABCL, is a fiercely guarded secret - after all this is going to be the first time Bachchan will act in a feature show. But we have learnt auditions for the rest of the cast is being carried out at several studios in Andheri.

Bachchan has apparently been toying with the idea of doing a television serial for a while now. "Last year, he held meetings with several channel producers, expressing his desire to act in a daily soap. Some of them even made a few presentations. But nothing worked out then," says a source close to the developments.

"But given that this is Bachchan's first-ever daily soap appearance, utmost care is being taken to keep the project under wraps," said the source, adding that an official announcement is likely next week.

Early reports suggest the project is being mounted on a lavish scale. "The budgets are huge and the serial is going to be another game-changer for Mr Bachchan and the industry," said an insider from the television industry on condition of anonymity. It is also being said that though Bachchan will be the face of the serial, but may not make an appearance in every episode. "But he will do all that he can to promote the production," added the source.

Incidentally, Big B, who likes to keep himself busy, has not signed any major films this year. "While some attributed to his health concerns, truth is, he worked out his schedule for his television debut. After his stints with KBC, he is now in love and comfortable with the medium," said the source.

And from the looks of it, the medium too is loving him back. Tune in to this channel for more.

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10 Cruel things men do to women

Posted: 12 Feb 2013 08:28 AM PST

Love him or hate him, but you can't ignore him - yes, we are talking about the man of your life. He's probably the most loving creature in your life, but he can also be the perpetual torture in ways more than one.

Here, we bring the top 10 cruel things that men do to women ...

1. Having the biggest ego: Ever wondered why men hate taking directions and prefer hunting out the place on their own, even if it means 2 hours delay and waste of gas. Well, the answer is the big ego they walk around with. This was the pettiest exemplar of a man's ego, which gets hurt at the drop of the hat and needs a massage whenever possible.

2. Living with a 'selective memory': They'll not only remember the name of every cricketer and football player on the planet but will also know their scores by heart. But, the moment the deal is about remembering birthdays and anniversaries of people close to them, their brain suffers an ailment called 'selective memory syndrome'.

3. Ogling (read at breasts): 'Men do stare at women's breasts' has been stamped as official by a world wide survey. But how we wish they knew that their drooling at the sight of a well endowed woman is cruel not only to the victim of that gaze, but also to the woman sitting beside them. Yes, they don't miss any chance, even if it is when they are on a date!

4. Being overtly possessive: Where in the world did men get that insecurity from? (Their mother? )They blame women for being jealous but a mere mention of another man from their girl can turn them into an ever clinging magnet.

5. Taking pride in their hypocrisy: Men can't get more cruel than this! They love hanging around with the coolest and sexiest babe in the town, but when it comes to meeting mom, it's a 'homely' girl they start hunting for. You loved her dressing style and carefree attitude when she came for night-outs with you, what's with that marriage material hunt now?

6. Showing extra care: How does it feel to take his 'where-about' calls every 15 minutes after you step out of the home? The care in that gesture goes out of the window and irritation takes charge. Don't they realise that we lived safe, sound and perfectly well in this world before they came into our lives. Hope someone is listening.

7. Throwing their 'superman' self everywhere: Yes, it feels nice when men are around for some help. However, their 'I-can-do-everything-under-the-sun' attitude does more harm than good, especially when they think themselves to be exalted beings - a plumber, electrician, carpenter and a financial adviser all rolled into one.

8. Consider emotions to be crap: Women might be emotional but having a constant practical point of view, like men doesn't, score well always. Men will become better beings for sure, if they stop making fun of sentiments and ignoring them as useless.

9. Being the friend worshippers: It is very torturing for women when men don't learn to priorities their life post marriage. They blame her for being a clinging vine when she asks for his time, but how sane is it to have a bunch of friends in the backseat on a long-drive, which was planned to be a romantic one?

10. Being the sex monster: Undoubtedly, women love zest in bed, but it's very cruel of men to demand their partners to play the porn star they saw in that flick last night. It's better to let her be herself in a sexapade rather than putting her in an uncomfy situation and then blaming her for being non-cooperative.

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Five things a guy will not tell you

Posted: 11 Feb 2013 09:53 AM PST

Guys do not tell everything to the girl they are going out with. Here is a list you should keep in mind...

Wondering what guys like in girls? Racking your brains thinking what they are actually thinking? What should you do to make sure he likes you? Do these questions bother you a lot? Well, we have made a list of things that young men on the right side of 25 like to keep to themselves, when it comes to their girls. So go on discover the secrets boyfriends like to keep...

They love the 'boyfriend' tag

Contrary to popular belief guys love being in love too. They like the boyfriend tag and no, all boys are definitely not the immature types who are scared of being committed.

They don't like games after a commitment

When a guy opens his heart to you it would be very wrong to keep playing the 'hard-to-get' games. Avoid it. When a girl pulls away the guy will too and soon the relationship will be over so it's better to avoid the psychological tug of war.

They'd want their friends to like you

Approval of friends is something that is big for a guy and they would like it if their friends like you. However, they are scared that their friends might covet you. This is something you totally have no control over at all but then guys do get more secure as they get older. If you've ever been dumped by a guy who you thought really liked you shortly after meeting his friends take comfort in the fact that you were probably just too hot for him to handle.

Don't love their friends; like them

Of course they do not want you to ditch them for their friends and they don't want you to go out of your way to get their friends to like you because they want your energy focused on them all the time. As long as their friends and you can hang out without incident the boyfriend in them is happy.

They worry that they will lose you

People keep writing about how to keep a guy interested in you but actually when a guy likes you then it is not hard at all. Actually it is the guys who are worried that you might dump them. Just be his girlfriend and he is happy!

Hrithik prepping up for Knight and Day remake

Posted: 11 Feb 2013 09:40 AM PST

Siddharth Anand's official remake of the 2010 Hollywood flick 'Knight and Day', titled 'Bang Bang' was originally scheduled to go on floors mid-February. However, shooting will now begin early March in Srinagar. More than the ongoing tensions in the Valley, it has to do with lead actors Hrithik Roshan and Katrina Kaif putting in some serious prep work to fill into the rather large shoes of Tom Cruise and Cameron Diaz (who star in the original film), respectively.

We've learnt Hrithik and Siddharth were recently ensconced in a Goa hideout to better understand the nuances of the role. In fact, during those few days Hrithik kept his phone switched off to concentrate on the script reading sessions. A source close to the actor revealed, "Hrithik is just out from the shoot of Krrish 3, which has been quite an excruciating one. Both he and Siddharth felt they needed to concentrate on the script without any distractions. Hence the hideout."

Apparently, Siddharth has a penchant for holding script-reading sessions with all his actors in Goa. "He is quite superstitious. Ask him for a meeting or a detailed discussion and chances are he will invite you to Goa," the source laughed. While the duo returned from Goa on Thursday, a second trip is slated for next week. And this time, Hrithik and Siddharth will be accompanied by Katrina.

Meanwhile, Siddharth has roped in Hollywood action director Conrad Palmisano (who also directed the stunts of Ek Tha Tiger and is in charge of action sequences in YRF's upcoming film Dhoom 3) to choreograph Hrithik and Katrina's stunts in the Knight and Day remake. "Currently, Conrad is in Mumbai and Hrithik has been meeting him for long hours," said the source.

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The love, sex and money problem

Posted: 10 Feb 2013 07:33 AM PST

These three factors are mainly responsible for relationship troubles. Here's how to tackle them

One problem or the other plagues all relationships at some point. While many people decide to ignore their issues and keep hanging on to the relationship, others give up without making any attempt to work it out. While you may feel that you are the one with all the problems, the other person may also have complaints about your behaviour. Here are some problems that are bound to figure on your list and the way to go about solving them.

Sex
If you feel men are the ones who have issues with their sex life, think again. A recent survey says that more than 64% of women are unhappy with their partner's performance in the bed. To keep the chemistry in your relationship intact, talk it out.

- Don't feel shy to admit your issues to your partner. It is likely that your spouse/partner doesn't realise that you are unhappy.
- Spice it up. Ask your partner what he/she would want to be more happy with your bedroom behaviour.
- Consider consulting a therapist. What might seem like a performance issue may actually be a serious problem. Go to a therapist and see if it helps.

Money
Should it be my money or our money? Whether it's before or after marriage, cash can cause a lot of trouble. A recent survey states that more couples now prefer to have separate bank accounts. Is this a healthy trend? Most experts think it is, as long as they pitch in equal amount for household expenses. Here's how you can sort your cash worries:

- Give you partner a clear indication of what you expect out of him/her every month.
- Try to work a system when one can be the saver and the other the spender. Or put aside equal amount for savings.
- But be flexible in case of a cash crunch.
- Don't hide debts from each other.
- Plan your short-term and long-term goals.

Lack of love and communication
Most couples feel that their partner is not affectionate and doesn't listen to them. That's often because neither party wants to sit down and sort out their problems. Talking about relationship issues never seems very important to most people. So, how do you communicate?

- Don't try to fit in your relationship talk between chores. You can't be checking your email or phone while talking to each other.
- To avoid disturbance when you are talking to each other, decide on a time mutually.
- Set some rules. If you feel that either you or your partner can't discuss problems because of anger, find some ways to get through those. Decide before hand that you won't shout at each other; ban words that you feel will hurt you or your partner.
- Be attentive when talking. Don't roll your eyes or slouch when your partner is talking. Your body language should indicate that you are interested in resolving the issues as much as your partner.
- Like your issues seem important to you, your partner, too, needs to get what he/she wants out of the relationship. Don't trivialise his/her issues.

Slime and semen to look beautiful?

Posted: 10 Feb 2013 07:29 AM PST

So, what's Katie Holmes up to now that a certain Mr. Cruise is out of her life, and she doesn't need to go to the Church of Scientology anymore?

Well, she's revelling in her new found single status, and is indulging in some beauty therapy. Albeit, in an ugly way. Yes, she is slathering on snake slime to keep her skin glowing and wrinkle free. Now if that has you grossed out, there's many a celeb beauty secret which will have you go eww, but if you get past that initial reaction, you too might want to go down that road. There's a lot of yuck things that go into making a beautiful face, and no, donkey's milk that had a thousand ships unmooring, sounds lame in comparison.
So let's see what we've got there? Poo and pee, and bull semen too!

Apparently, a hair salon in the UK that styles and shines many a gorgeous crowning glory uses bull semen to give their celebrity clients' hair some extra sheen and strength. Talk of literally sexing up the hair!

Actress Jessica Simpson, among others, keeps beautiful feet as she has hundreds of fish nibbling away the dead skin of her feet. Cougar town faithful Demi Moore keeps herself in may need to thank the leeches for lucking out every time she finds a 'friend' young enough to be her son. She has a detox routine that has leeches drawing out all the toxic blood. And mother Madonna mines the womb to get her beauty fix. She applies face cream that's made out of human placenta.

Victoria and David Beckham, reportedly, have bird droppings in their facials! And, mind you, no ordinary bird poop this; it's got to be what the nightingales drop. Talk about being posh!

That's not all. Thank god that Gwyneth Paltrow does not spew venom with all the snake venom she uses to fight signs of ageing. And Jennifer Love Hewitt does not use toothpaste only for her teeth, just as Sandra Bullock does not have piles but still uses a cream meant for that (Yes, we told you it's gross). And you go figure this one. How crocodile crap and earthworm poop can enhance your beauty. And while you're at it, find out what Vajazzling does to celebs' lady bits.

Salman Khan decides to go for treatment

Posted: 10 Feb 2013 07:27 AM PST

Bollywood star Salman Khan said that he would undertake a long-delayed trip abroad for treatment, which he had put off because of his acting schedule and the blackbuck poaching case in court.

"I had to delay going due to the acting schedules and the court cases. But now I will go," he told the media at a Celebrity Cricket League match in Kochi.

Salman Khan is charged under the Wildlife Protection Act for allegedly poaching a blackbuck in Rajasthan in 1998.

Asked about the case, he said: "I cannot talk about it right now."

The actor, who had a surgery in 2011 for a nerve condition, was earlier scheduled to go to the USA at the end of January, but cancelled it because of his court hearings in Mumbai and Jodhpur.

Salman was detected with trigeminal neuralgia, a neurological disorder, and aneurysm in the brain. While he underwent surgery for trigeminal neuralgia in the US 2011, the aneurysm still exists and he has to go to the US for further treatment.

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Home remedies to cure acne

Posted: 09 Feb 2013 10:39 AM PST

Acne is a very common problem from which a very large feed of young people are suffering these days. Dirty skin, eating chocolates, greasy food and hormonal changes are a few common reasons which are inculpated for it.

Skin specialist Dr. Sandeep Bhasin of Care Well Medical Centre brings some home remedies which will help you get rid of acne easily.

1. Always do a skin test: Home remedies are easy to make and apply but before that one should definitely go for a skin test to a dermatologist before inception of any kind. Your skin type and reason for your acne can be different from others in which only a dermatologist can help you out. Applying the remedies without knowing the reason or skin type may harm your skin and give you more side-effects from the same.

2. Leafy intake: Vitamin A & Iron supplements are really good for acne. Consume more of green leafy vegetables, dairy products, fish, liver and fortified cereals; the top sources of provitamin A include carrots, broccoli, cantaloupe and squash. Daily intake of 20,000 IU would help in reducing the acne formation as well as the scarring caused by the acnes.

3. Exercise regularly: Regular workouts, physical exercises and a fit body with a balanced weight will help you in the long term; reducing sweets, carbohydrates and high calories in diet would help in controlling acne.

4. Nature's helping hand: Tea tree oil is a common antiseptic oil which is very helpful in reducing the inflammation of acne. It is highly beneficial and it helps in reducing the redness of the acute stage of acne. Take some tea tree oil and apply it to the acne overnight.

5. Herbal cure: Neem and chiraita are excellent herbs which help in decreasing the acne formation. Crush some leaves and make a paste out of them, apply the paste daily for a cleaner looking and an acne free skin.

6. Baking soda: Baking soda is one of the ingredients which can be found in every kitchen easily. Mix baking soda with some water in a bowl as thick as a paste and apply it over the face as a facial mask. Remove it after 20 minutes and wash your face with lukewarm water or as the dermatologist prescribes as per your skin type. Natural bleaching agents of baking soda will definitely help in speeding the healing, clearing up and reducing of the scars.

7. Oatmeal: Mix some water with oatmeal ground in a blender from which you will get a thick paste. Apply the paste to the face as a facial mask and let it dry for 15 minutes. Wash it with lukewarm water and pat dry your face with a white clean towel. Natural properties of the oatmeal will help in cleaning up the acne and reduce the scarring.

8. Organic yogurt: If you are not allergic to milk products then organic yogurt is very gentle and is a must for acne reduction. Apply the yogurt on the acne and let it remain for at least 10 minutes. Lactic acid in the yogurt contains natural alpha hydroxy acids and has milk exfoliating effects which helps the skin rejuvenate and reduce acne scarring.

9. Egg-white: Making a facial mask from egg-white is very helpful in healing acne scars and reducing acne inflammation at a fast rate. Apply the mashed egg-white over the face as a facial mask and wash it after 20 minutes with lukewarm water. But, be sure that your skin is not allergic to eggs and taking the advice of dermatologist is a must. If you can undergo it then also try after mixing few drops of lemon with it.

10. Cold pressed olive oil: Olive oil is a great skin moisturiser and in use from years for personal care as it contains four different antioxidants one of which is linoleic acid which prevents water to evaporate from our skin. Take some cold pressed olive oil and apply it to the scars. It helps in reducing the visibility of acne scars and helps in softening them.

11. Ice magic: Place an ice-cube over your acne pimples one by one and it will really help reduce the redness and swelling from them. Ice cubes also helps in reducing the size of acne scars by tightening them.

Marriage bad for your sex life?

Posted: 09 Feb 2013 10:34 AM PST

At the start, couples just can't seem to get enough of each other. But after a few years into the marriage, is it the same story? Rachel Fernandes gets the experts to explain

Wondering what's ailing your once rocking sex life post marriage? It could be the marriage itself. Yes, according to a recent survey, the very fact that they are married can take a toll on a couple's sex life. In the survey, conducted on 3,000 married people, it was found that their sex lives did not remain the same after a few years into the marriage. Researchers found that though, initially, couples can expect to have sex more than four times a week, after three years of life as man and wife, most couples are lucky to have sex just once every seven days.

Up to one third of the married people interviewed admitted that they no longer fancied their partner as much as they did in the early days and a whopping 43 per cent even claimed that their loved one had let themselves go. It also emerged six out of ten couples believe marriage has completely ruined the excitement of having sex. Under half of all married people said their relationship with their partner is more that of friends than lovers.

The poll shows 59 per cent of couples believe their sex life has worsened since marriage because they no longer make an effort with each other any more and a third no longer fancy their partner as much as they did in the early days. Unfortunately, eight in ten couples admitted to being in a sexual rut - having sex at the same time, in the same place and in the same positions every time they sleep together. In fact, 79 per cent of people are happier getting a good night's sleep than making the effort to have spontaneous sex in the middle of the night. Two thirds of couples blamed their hectic lifestyle for their terrible sex life and 80 per cent claimed they were often too tired to bother about any 'action between the sheets' once the day was over. Seven in ten people also admitted that they might be inclined to make love more often if their partner made more of an effort romantically.

"Unfortunately, while you can be deeply in love with someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them, it is also possible to want more from the relationship. A partner might be supportive, funny, intelligent, and kind, but if they don't inspire confidence in the bedroom, or don't meet expectations sexually, life can be frustrating," a spokesman of the study was quoted saying.

Dr Minnu R Bhonsle, psychotherapist and counsellor attributes the decline in couples sex lives to two basic factors - either emotional distancing or physical fatigue. "If it's a case of emotional distancing, it's mainly because of accumulated issues that have remained unresolved. Hence, the partner doesn't feel connected to the other and stops responding to the his/her overtures. As for physical fatigue it could be due to a variety of reasons - fatigue at work, tiredness trying to maintain a balance between work, home and kids. As a result, fatigue overrides their sex life."

"Most young people are seized with a wrong notion that sex life is different from marriage. In reality, sexual relationship is essential and a healthy part of a marriage. Sex needs commitment and connectivity and that is where most young people find themselves lacking the adequate energy or inclination," opines Dr Rajiv Anand, marriage counsellor. According to him, it is not the sexual act that loses novelty or attraction after marriage but the approach of the people involved.

So what's the solution? "If it's a case of physical fatigue, couples should engage in scheduled sex. They must plan weekend getaways or make arrangements to leave the child with a babysitter or relatives and plan a night out where they could probably get home early from work and then just concentrate on spending time with each other. If it's an issue of emotional distancing, communication is the only solution. Couples need to talk things out with each other in a non-toxic way," says Dr Minnu.

Dr Anjali Chhabria, psychiatrist and psychotherapist opines that it is more important to get down to the root cause of the issue than just search for quick fix solutions. "Sex is an important part of marriage and the lack of it could indicate issues in the marriage. A declining sex life is a symptom, it's just the tip of the iceberg. One needs to find answers to why there is no sex? Is it because there is no chemistry in the relationship or is there no relationship at all? Are the partners too tired or stressed out? Does one partner feel that she or he is no longer attractive to the other? Is one's spouse attracted to someone else? If it's just boredom, couples need to make sex a priority. If they are too tired to have sex at night, do it in the morning. If lack of privacy is the issue, couple need to make time for themselves. Most importantly, couples need to tell each other what they want. Your partner is not a magician to magically figure out your wants and needs," she explains

Race 2 joins Rs. 100 crore club

Posted: 09 Feb 2013 10:29 AM PST

Filmmaker Abbas-Mustan's action thriller "Race 2″ has become the first film of the year to enter Rs.100 crore club by grossing Rs.100.45 crore.
Made at a budget of Rs.60 crore, the film came out Jan 25 and earned Rs.100.45 crore in two weeks of its release.
"We are glad that 'Race 2′ is continuing its great run at the box office and holding its position throughout," Gaurav Verma, director – India theatrical distribution, Studios, Disney UTV, said in a statement.
"We had complete faith in the film and are extremely happy that audiences have liked the film and have made it possible for the film to reach this position," he added.
Co-produced by UTV Motion Pictures and Tips Music Films, the film features an ensemble cast of John Abraham, Saif Ali Khan, Deepika Padukone, Jacqueline Fernandez, Anil Kapoor and Ameesha Patel.

Whoever is found guilty, even if it's me, should be punished: Big B

Posted: 09 Feb 2013 10:07 AM PST

Bollywood superstar Amitabh Bachchan - a law-abiding citizen- does his bit to contribute to country's betterment.

Addressing the media today in the morning, Big B announced his association with an NGO named Plan India to which he plans to donate the profit the family makes on the sale of a book of his paintings made by renowned painters.

After speaking about betterment of the girl child and how he feels for the girl child, the media asked the Bachchans about their reaction on the execution of terrorist Afzal Guru.

Initially reluctant to comment on it, Bachchan Sr finally told the media, "Everyone should abide by the law and the guilty should be punished. I respect the law and I'm glad justice has been done. The guilty has been punished according to the law. The justice has been done after a thorough investigation. Whoever is found guilty, even if it's me, should be punished."