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I am ready for marriage: Priyanka Chopra scandal

Posted: 14 Sep 2012 12:49 PM PDT



Actress Priyanka Chopra, who is looking forward to Saif Ali Khan and Kareena Kapoor wedding, says that she is ready to settle down, but is unable to find her Mr. Right.

"From the age of four I have been waiting to get married. I am ready for it. My mom, dad are also ready but the only problem is I am not getting Mr. Right. So that is a technical problem," Priyanka told reporters when asked if she is planning to settle down too.

Priyanka, who has turned a singer, was talking at an event to unveil her first single "In My City".

Meanwhile, Saif and Kareena are likely to tie the knot Oct 16, and expressing her happiness for them, Priyanka said: "It is a beautiful thing that she is getting married. I feel it is the most beautiful beginning of a new journey. To me, Saif and Kareena make a wonderful lovable couple. I am looking forward to their marriage."

However, neither Saif nor Kareena has confirmed their wedding date yet.

Virginity matters most in marriage?

Posted: 14 Sep 2012 12:46 PM PDT



Are you being 'brutally honest' with your partner? Well, here are some of the truths that most of couples prefer keeping under wraps.

From ages we have been told to stick to one fact - be 'brutally honest' with your partner in all aspects of life.

However, do we all follow that golden rule? Before you start feeling guilty, allow me to tell you that you are not the only one living with white lies in your relationship. The place where people feel most comfortable lying is their bedroom.

If women lie about their vital stats, men also fudge about the numerous sex partners they have had. May be it helps them in keeping the romance alive in their den. So here are some of the truths that most of the people prefer keeping under the wraps.

Fake it!
From once in a while to all the time, most couples fake an orgasm to avoid upsetting their partner. This is pretty common among the fairer sex.

Revati Prasad, who works with a Noida- based MNC says, "Like all other girls, I spoke at length about lovemaking with my friends before getting married. But when it came to practicing it, I literally got cold feet. It's been eight months, but it's rare that I reach an orgasm. I find intercourse a painful act. Because of hesitation and the fear of rejection, I keep mum. I think it would affect my husband's ego if I tell him that he fails to satisfy me."

Dr Sanjay Chugh, a psychiatrist suggests, "At times men also fake an orgasm, but it's mainly a female dominated phenomenon. There can be several reasons like guilt, fear of getting pregnant, no desirability for the partner or painful intercourse. Not necessarily you reach the big 'O' all the time, but faking it for long to save your partner from embarrassment is not the right thing to do in bed. Talking about the issue frankly will certainly help."

I forgot the count
Most of the men consider women as extremely possessive beings. Therefore, they generally manipulate the number of women they have shared 'good' times with.

Rakesh Aggarwal, a marketing executive tells, "No women love competition, therefore I make no effort to bother my girls. It's my ninth affair in four years, but I think I am really serious this time. She is my colleague in office. She does know that I am not a virgin, but I am in no mood to tell her that I have made love to almost half a dozen women."

Dr Kamal Khurana, a relationship expert says, "It's not only about women, men also don't think highly of women who have had several sex partners in their past. This is the main factor why people prefer to lie about their ex partners. It's definitely a personal choice, but keeping your partner in the absolute dark is unfair. If not completely, try to share some of details of your past with your mate."

It was fun honey!
You were in between the act and your partner pushed you to try a new position. You found it awkward and it wasn't that pleasurable too. Still you preferred to say, 'it was great'. Many people can relate to this situation.
Reema Sinha, a content writer reveals, "Me and my guy were on a weekend break. I was really looking forward to some rocking action in bed. It was all going good before I found myself in a funny position. I think he was enjoying our new sex position, but I burst out into laughter, and my man was very disturbed seeing my reaction. So, I decided that I will let him experiment the way he wants."

Dr Sanjay Chugh explains, "It's a great thing to try out new ways to attain a high point with your partner in bed. Nobody likes to stick to a monotonous sex routine for too long. But you need to be considerate towards you partner's comfort too. Keep in mind that it becomes difficult for women to attain the big 'O' in certain positions."

Sizeable issues
Who goes to bed with a measuring tape in hand? And that makes it easy for everybody to boast about their vital stats.

Chitra Rawat, a media person says, "Men simply adore women who are blessed with a nice cleavage and my boyfriend is no different. Thanks to all the inventions in terms of lingerie, it is easier to look a size bigger. I think it's fair enough to misguide him this much, if it gives him a sexual high. The only problem I face is, I can't go for lingerie shopping with him."

"Most of the men have a fascination for women with fuller figures. And if you know how to take advantage, than there is nothing like it. At times men also brag about their size. It's better not to make claims that you may not be able to sustain for long. It may cause embarrassment to both of you," tells Dr Khurana.

Virginity values...
Virginity still seems to be a big deal when it comes to marriage. No matter how modern people claim to be, they still want a virgin while getting married.

Suparna Gupta, an architect confesses, "I have been in an intense relationship in my past, because of his family issues we couldn't take it forward. Now I am getting married to another guy. With my sexual behavior, he might get to know that I am not a virgin. Therefore I plan to act extra cautious, I cannot afford to ruin my future because of my past. Sometimes I wonder, is it really a big deal."

"It's certainly not an uncommon situation. We live in a modern society and pre-marital sex is not an alien term now. However, it's still a hush-hush issue. So if you think your partner will not be able to digest the truth about your past, then it's better to keep it to yourself. Still it's always advisable that if you have had a sexual relationship, you should go for a medical check up before you tie the knot," Dr Chugh concludes.

Zarine Khan to work in a Hollywood film?

Posted: 14 Sep 2012 12:30 PM PDT


It has been quite some time since Zarine Khan stepped into Bollywood but the actress is yet to her mark here. Now, it seems that Hollywood is interested in the beauty as she has reportedly been approached to be a part of author-turned-director Daniel Silva's 'Chimera'. The movie is said to be based on Silva's bestselling novel 'The Fallen Angel'. Though Zarine is yet to give her final nod, she has confirmed about the offer.
At the launch of the popular cosmetic brand Lotus Herbals' new range of natural makeup 'Pure Stay' on Tuesday, Zarine said, 'I have been offered the film but I am thinking about it. It is a thriller called 'Chimera' opposite Billy Zane. I have read the script but I am still thinking about it. '
Zarine was last seen in Sajid's multi starrer comedy 'Housefull 2' and says that she would rather do a few quality films than do a number of them. 'I really don't want to be in the race of newcomers, who are just running after the projects. It's not that I haven't been offered films. I have been offered a lot of films after 'Housefull 2′, but I want to take my time and do quality work rather than quantity. Though would take time but I would like to follow it, ' she said.

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Posted: 13 Sep 2012 12:06 PM PDT


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Minissha Lamba on Maxim’s first Sex and Relationship issue

Posted: 13 Sep 2012 11:37 AM PDT


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Minissha Lamba made her entry into Bollywood with a coy girl-next-door image in films like 'Yahan' and 'Bachna Ae Haseeno'. Then, she tried an image makeover with a bikini act in 'Kidnap' and later a hot photshoot in two piece for 'Maxim'.
Since then, Minissha's career has been going great guns. She also went de-glam for the 2010 film Well Done Abba. Then she came into news for being the grand marshal of India's Independence Day parade in Los Angeles.
Once again, Minissha strikes a sultry pose for the cover of Maxim's first ever Sex & Relationships issue. The actress is seen draped in just a length of slinky satin black fabric to keep her modest.
Check out Minissha as she launches Maxim's special edition on Sex and relationship……

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Aishwarya Rai as a dance Goddess for Kalyan Jewellers

Posted: 11 Sep 2012 11:52 AM PDT


Aishwarya Rai Bachchan puts forward a Goddess look for her latest photoshoot for Kalyan Jewellers. Post the birth of her daughter Aaradhya, the Bachchan bahu had always been seen in long flowing dresses which hid her flabs. Even is her previous photoshoots for Kalyan Jewellers, the actress was seen covered in a gown. This is the first time, she flaunts her skin as she is dressed in a skimpy choli with an ornate flared salwar and draping a chiffon dupatta from the back.
She is all decked up from head to toe in heavy jewellery. She flaunts a dramatic hairdo which is adorned with strings of temple jewellery, mainly used in south Indian dance forms. She is also wearing a splendid crown. The collection has been named Nimah-Divine and Aishwarya strikes a dance pose with a lotus flower in one hand.
What we cant stop wondering about is the fact that her slim waistline does not seem to go in perfect harmony with her rather full face. Again a photoshop job?? Check it out for yourself…..

Sasha Agha to make her Bollywood debut with YRF’s ‘Aurangzeb’

Posted: 11 Sep 2012 11:48 AM PDT


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Putting an end to all the speculations as to who would star opposite Arjun Kapoor in YRF's next project 'Aurangjeb', the production house has announced the name of Salma Agha's daughter Sasha Agha as their female lead. Sasha's original name is Zara Agha Khan. The 19- year-old Pakistani beauty will play a glamorous role in Aurangzeb, which is being directed by debutant director Atul Sabharwal. The film has Arjun in a double role and also features south Indian superstar Prithviraj. Rishi Kapoor, Jackie Shroff and Amrita Singh also play important roles in the film.
Salma Agha had made her debut with B.R. Chopra's Nikaah in 1982 and interestingly enough, her daughter is making a debut with YRF, the production house of B.R. Chopra's younger brother Yash Chopra.
Sasha came in the news for all the wrong reasons last year when an MMS clip that allegedly featured her and struggler Ruslaan Mumtaaz engrossed in a passionate kiss went viral.
Meanwhile, Sasha is gearing up for her grand Bollywood debut. She is undertaking rigorous workouts, dance lessons and diction classes. The shooting of the movie began mid-August, and the movie is scheduled for an early 2013 release.

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Bipasha Basu talks about John Abraham

Posted: 08 Sep 2012 10:51 PM PDT


Basu who has had a trying year with her personal travails, returns triumphant with the super opening of Raaz 3

How did you feel when the man you gave nine years of your life to, left you?
I felt abandoned. I was living in a lala land till then. Now sitting today I feel I was so foolish. During those nine years, I retracted from my work, pushed back opportunities, stood like a rock for the man I loved, did not meet people just to give that extra time to make my relationship work and then I realised that the thing I was working so hard for was gone overnight. It took me months to realise that it's over and I am abandoned. I went through a lot of pain. I used to howl, went into isolation, it hurt. But then after some time the mind has to take over.

How did you cope with being treated like a discarded woman?
I would be the biggest liar if I said there was no struggle and that there were no wounds. I never wanted to talk about my wounds at that time because people dig into them deeper when you talk. I am a single girl. I need to be in the business and work peacefully. I can't let the baggage of my private life get into work. Artists are more fragile than normal people. But I know that I am a role model for zillions of people so no matter how deep you are hurting, you need to come out strong.

What does love mean to you?
I am a very traditional type of a girl. I like simple things in life. I didn't fall in love in day one. I was chased. I was wooed. I gave my 100 per cent to my relationship, whether it was my loyalty or respect. I know I made a fabulous girlfriend and would make a fabulous homemaker. I have parents who still deeply love each other. So these are things I value too deeply in life. To me love is not something that can be manipulated.


Has this bitter experience taught you lessons in life?
Nothing can save something that is not meant to be, no matter how hard you try. I want to tell women that you need to love yourself and make yourself a priority. It's only when you are happy yourself, can you make everyone else around you happy. I am still a dreamer and still believe in fairy tales, but there is only that much one should give another person. You need to keep something for yourself. I am to blame for what happened to me. I allowed a lot. Anyone who pulls you down in your life, should not be in your life.

You isolated so many people like Salman for this one relationship? Do you regret it? I isolated myself. It's silly, but I did it out of choice. I was foolish. I guess that kind of love does not exist any more, at least not in our business. But when you are right, everyone comes around. Salman is today a friend.

What has changed for you today?
I walk without make-up and people tell me I glow. I see my pictures then and now. It's as if a dark cloud has lifted above my head. Today I have love and respect for myself. Today, I know I am a fantastic woman. I am so enriched because so much has happened in my life. The way I can express myself is because of the life I have lead. It's only when you experience life can you emote it. All this has made me a better actor.

We now see a new Bipasha who is ready to mingle with men.
From childhood I love and got along with only men. If a man has a crush on me, I am not supposed to be at fault for that. During the nine years, I confined myself and never stepped out. I didn't have a life. I worked, went to a gym and came back to my hotel room. Even if a man loved me, it was never communicated to me. I make friends easily irrespective of the sex. I love people. Today I feel happy, light and free.You have seen me so long in a confined and controlled manner, that you may think I am trying to create an image.

Were there people who helped you get out of it?
Rocky S is my friend and brother. He held me with his hands and made me stand on my feet. It's my friends who helped me. Friendship is the most selfless, beautiful relationship God has made. Bhatt Sahab picked me for 'Raaz 3' when I was in self-doubt and made me feel that it was okay not to be strong.

Would you fall in love again?
Yes, I am not cynical about love. I am still a simple, uncomplicated trusting girl. I would again give my 100 per cent to a relationship if I were to have one. But I also believe that it's okay to be single and as a single woman I can be happy.

Are you vindictive?
Not at all. I believe in respecting people's relationships. I may not have respect for him, but have respect for anyone who is in a relationship.

What has changed for you professionally today?
I was born in Delhi, went to Kolkata, wanted to become a doctor, became a model, travelled around the world, got bored of modelling, became a part of films, made love my priority, had a failed love life, realised the mistake I had made by pushing back the one support system of work that I had. Today I am ready to struggle again.

I definitely did not have this much focus earlier. But today, I do. Right now I want to give it all to my work. I am enjoying it. I am happy with it. There is a fierceness and a tiny bit of regret that I had talent, but kept on pushing myself back for another priority. I have to make up for lost time. I know I have talent, the will and the audience connect. No heroine without the backing of a big hero or camp can last so long. I have to get my due here and I know I will get it.

5 Types of men women hate

Posted: 08 Sep 2012 10:48 PM PDT


There might be ample qualities that make men irresistible. But women being the fairer sex have created certain stereotypes in men that they would never want to be seen with.

We list the most common kinds of men that women love to hate...

Thumbs down to dominant men : Gone are the days when a male dominated society used to be the way of life. So, if the next time you try to show your superiority in front of your girl, it might land you in a tight spot. Women prefer mates who're recognized by their peers for their skills, abilities, and achievements - and not those who use coercive tactics to subordinate their rivals, reveals a new study.

Expert says : Dr. Chirta Bakshi, a relationship counsellor says, "Dominant behaviour is highly opposed by a female partner as she wants to enjoy the bond with equal respect. In any relationship, if one partner tries to have the upper hand in taking all decisions and if they portray their dominant self, it will not do any good to that relationship."

Macho guys aren't always lucky : A macho guy with an angry young man personality might look good on silver screen, but when it comes to real life, women aren't game to hang around with macho dudes. A recent study claims that macho guys don't always get the girls. The study further revealed that the most aggressive guys ended up with fewer wives and children.

Expert says : Personality development expert Varun Chhabra says, "Women today are more keen to pick a guy who flaunts a good body combined with a metro sexual image rather than the typical rough and tough hunk. Men who look tough from the outside and bear a soft heart within are women's favourite."

Keep sex starved men at bay : Men are usually sexually more charged up. But when it comes to choosing a mate, women don't opt for a sexually ravenous partner. This is maybe because for such men, sex is the top priority in the relationship whereas the woman continuously seeks love and romance, sans physical intimacy.

Expert says : Relationship and sex counsellor Dr. Geetu Bhardwaj shares, "It's not that women are not keen to have sex with their partner, but a man's sexual inclination does plan an important role when it comes to choosing their partner. Women generally aren't too comfortable with the idea of being with a man who has sex on his mind throughout the day. In such relationships, things like understanding and love are secondary and sexual intimacy is all that matters for the male partner."

Chauvinism is out completely : Remember Bobby Deol's chauvinistic character in Dostana, which was enough to drive his lady nuts. An excess of anything is bad. Women don't find a chauvinistic man a great companion to spend the rest of their lives with.

Expert says : Dr. Ratan Kumar, a clinical psychologist asserts, "There is a very thin line of demarcation between being a gentleman and chauvinist. A girl might love your care and concern, but your over chauvinistic attitude may irritate her at times. Make an attempt to give enough space to her and let the comfort zone be there as per mutual convenience."

Using slangs won't take you anywhere : Using abusive lingo every time you indulge in a conversation might lend you a cool dude look cool in front of your male peers, but girls don't want to hang around with a abusive man. Being too abusive and stressing on using slangs too often is a 'turn off' for today's women.

Expert says : Psychiatrist Dr. Anupam Randhawa states, "Men need to realise that a woman would like to be associated with a respectful and well-behaved mate. So using excess of slang language and abusive words during conversations can backfire. The reason why women keep such partners at bay is because they find it offensive when their man gets abusive as it comes as a gesture of disrespect to the relationship."