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Five actresses who’ve changed the norms in Bollywood

Posted: 08 Mar 2013 09:23 AM PST

There was time when only male actors dominated Bollywood. Women had selective roles to play and were usually stereotyped (barring a few films). From the sati savitri to the vamp, she always took a backseat. However over the years, things have changed and women actresses have played a myriad of roles. Some have changed perceptions and ruled cinema in their own way.

On International Women's day today (8th March 2013), here's applauding a few who have dared to be different.

Zeenat Aman- She was the sex symbol of the 1970's and 80's and made the Indian woman look modern in her thought and appearances. She glamourised the western look and brought it to Indian screens. Many actresses followed suit. With Satyam Shivam Sundaram, she redefined the word bold. But Aman was more than just a sex symbol. She had hit films to her credit including The Great Gambler, Don, Qurbani and Lawaaris. In spite of her turbulent personal life and dysfunctional relationships that left her badly bruised, beaten and even battered in the left eye, Zeenat chose to live an independent life and moved on from her past mistakes. She continues to be an inspiration for women even today.



Shabana Azmi- This woman needs no introduction. Backed by a host of successful films, power packed performances, accolades and awards galore, Shabana Azmi never chose to be different. That was just the way she was. With acclaimed films like, Arth, Ankur and Fire to name a few, Shabana was one the few actresses who merged the gap between parallel and commercial cinema. At a time when homosexuality was a taboo in Indian society and continues to be, she chose to play a lesbian lover to Nandita Das in Deepa Mehta's controversial film Fire. But Shabana goes beyond films. She's actively involved in theatre and is a social and women's rights activist and also a Goodwill Ambassador of the United Nations Population Fund.



Kajol- Who doesn't love this bubbly full of life actress who was a severe threat to all her contemporaries. She was unapologetic about her unibrow and protruding belly in a time when fitness and fashion were fast catching up with the film industry. Where her contemporaries shied from playing villainous roles, Kajol didn't think twice. In Gupt-The Hidden Truth she played the role of an obsessed lover who eventually gets killed. With films like Dushman, Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, My Name Is Khan and Fanaa, Kajol made unconventional look cool. Kajol also changed the concept of a married actress making a comeback when she chose to do Fanaa. She went on record to say that Fanaa was never her comeback film because she never retired, just took a break from acting. Recipient of many awards, Kajol is sui generis and no one can ever replace her.



Karisma Kapoor- Kudos to this Kapoor girl. Karisma's journey in Bollywood was a far cry from the fairy tale experiences that other star kids had. With a lineage as fine as hers, the Kapoor siblings were forbidden from working in the film industry. But Lolo fought all odds and made her debut at the tender age of seventeen and eventually established her self as one of the top actresses of the 90's. Lolo's success and struggle paved the way for her younger sibling Kareena Kapoor into Bollywood. Karisma was one of the few actresses who made fitness a fashion and fought the flab which was a highlight of the 90's actresses. With Raja Hindustani, she had her biggest commercial success and went on to play a supporting role in Dil Toh Pagal Hain opposite Madhuri Dixit, a role that many reportedly turned down including Twinkle Khanna, Aishwarya and Kajol. This won her the National Film Award for Best Supporting Actress. Karisma took a step further by venturing into television, something that was uncommon for actresses at that time. Although the series did not hit the right note with audiences, she once again made her comeback with Dangerous Ishq. As the yummy mummy of Bollywood, she continues to endorse big brands and has also turned Radio jockey. This makes her a complete woman and a true inspiration for all Bollywood aspirants.



Vidya Balan- Her struggle was worth it! Much before Parineeta turned her into an overnight sensation, Vidya Balan had her share of ups and downs before making it to the top. At one point, she was termed as jinxed because all her projects in the South were either shelved or she would be replaced. That's when Vidya appeared in a series of commercials, a music video, a Bengali film Bhalo Theko and a TV series Hum Paanch before luck would change things for her. Even bagging Parineeta was not easy as she went through numerous auditions before being finalized.



But post Parineeta's success, nothing could stop her except a few bad films like Kismat Konnection and Salaam-E-Ishq. All the big directors signed Vidya for their projects. She went on to win four back to back Filmfare awards from 2010-2013 among several others. Vidya had come with a bang! Suddenly every one was taking notice of this actress who had well reached her thirties. In spite of doing women centric themes and films (No One Killed Jessica, Kahaani and The Dirty Picture), she became an A-lister and came in the top league of actors. Vidya remained unperturbed by the constant criticism about her weight and style in a fitness & glamour obsessed industry. She instead sought solace in saris and Sabyasachi became her favourite designer. Vidya recently tied the knot with UTV head honcho Sidhharth Roy Kapoor but being married has not stopped this actress from pursuing her career further. She will be seen in films like Ghanchakkar (2013) and Shaadi Ke Side Effects (2013).

Shah Rukh Khan queers Salman Khan’s Eid pitch

Posted: 08 Mar 2013 09:20 AM PST

Get ready for Eid, he says to the Chennai Express team at a meeting of stakeholders in Wai. Is Sallu listening?

It's official now. Shah Rukh Khan has staked his claim to the most coveted release date of the film calendar, which has been monopolised by Salman Khan so far. Chennai Express will be flagged off on the day of Eid, on August 8. This is the first time in years that SRK will release his film on the auspicious day that has seen Sallu storm the box office with Wanted, Bodyguard, Dabangg and Ek Tha Tiger.

With SRK traditionally dominating the Diwali slot, it was an unwritten code between the two stars that one will not eye the other's favourite time of the year. But trust SRK to throw caution to the wind.

The date for Chennai Express was finalised at a meeting held in Wai yesterday. TOI has learnt that Shah Rukh, who has been camping there for weeks now, called the various stakeholders to the set.

Among them were distributors, members of the production house, Rohit Shetty, Farah Khan, who has choreographed a song for the film, and music directors Vishal-Shekhar.

"Interesting thing about the conclave was, one did not know about the others who had been summoned," said a source. SRK, who was in a jubilant mood, broke the news to all present. "Get ready for Eid!" he reportedly said, to whoops of delight.

That Chennai Express would eventually release on Eid, had become increasingly apparent over the past few weeks. Salman's Sher Khan, announced as an Eid release, was shelved. His Mental is unlikely to get ready by that time. Bhansali wisely moved Ram Leela away from the collision course, to avoid a repeat of the OSO Saawariya story. That kept the slot open for Once Upon a Time in Mumbaai -2. Now that's hardly competition.

It remains to be seen if Salman's luck rubs off on his arch rival.

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Aamir Khan’s old radio traced in Chor Bazaar

Posted: 07 Mar 2013 08:00 AM PST

Aamir Khan carries a radio in the film P.K. which apparently was sourced though Chor Bazaar.

There are various pictures doing the rounds of Aamir Khan in the ghagra or the tight shirt from the sets of P.K. However no-one has been able to identify Aamir Khan's character in the film. Aamir has strangely also been spotted carrying a radio.

The radio is of olden times and, if sources are to be believed, has an important part in the film. It has almost become like a character, in a sense, and has created curiosity among the audiences. Sources close to the film say, "Aamir had seen this radio in olden times and was very keen to have it. He vaguely described it as one of the oldest radio which was launched."

The production team had a hard time sourcing this radio. They researched and asked a lot of people and finally managed to spot it at Chor Bazaar. This was the closest radio they found to what Aamir had described.

We wonder what is the secret plot behind the radio?

Why women eventually go back to bad boys

Posted: 07 Mar 2013 07:58 AM PST


After getting thrashed by her lover, Rihanna says he's not a monster. How smart is it to go on with an abusive partner?

When she broke up with boyfriend Chris Brown in 2009, saying she had been in an abusive relationship for long, Rihanna made a very important statement: "When I realised that my selfish decision for love could result into some young girl getting killed, I could not be easy with that part. I couldn't be responsible ... If Chris never hit me again, who's to say that their boyfriend won't ... kill these girls". She urged young girls to not "react out of love".

That was then. Four years later, the Umbrella singer has got back with Brown, saying she missed her "best friend". The 25-year-old has reacted to criticism saying she believed that Brown needed help. In her seventh studio album Unapologetic, the two crooners have recorded a song titled Nobody's Business — which is kind of self explanatory. How safe is it to get back with an abusive — it could be mental, physical or even sexual — ex?

Russian roulette
It's a gamble most psychologists say one should avoid. Deepti Makhija who has a practice at Andheri believes, "Expecting a violent partner to change is a false notion. After all, we come from a society where mothers believe in reinforcing negative behaviour among their children. If a child hits his/her classmate in school, instead of correcting their child or understanding if there's a larger issue to be dealt with, mothers say, 'at least, my child didn't get hit'."

Psychiatrist Dr Ashit Sheth, who practices at Marine Lines, says a lot of people in abusive relationships tend to 'romanticise the relationship' and wonder how it would have turned out had they given it some time and care. Rihanna too, for instance, has been quoted in Rolling Stone magazine saying, "He's not the monster everybody thinks. He's a good person. He has a fantastic heart. He's giving and loving. And he's fun to be around." She added, "I decided it was more important for me to be happy. I wasn't going to let anybody's opinion get in the way of that. Even if it's a mistake, it's my mistake. After being tormented for so many years, being angry and dark, I'd rather just live my truth and take the backlash. I can handle it."

Living a lie
Both Makhija and Sheth believe staying in an abusive relationship, or getting back to one is an unhealthy move. "It's like being put in a miniconcentration camp. Initially, they face fear, anger or resentment but after that, they go through guilt, shame, and feel that something is wrong with them. In these cases women, especially, become too passive to take a decision. Instead, they tend to get used to the abuse," says Sheth.

Makhija says it is also a reflection of low self-esteem. "Women who come from abusive homes tend to have esteem issues. If she has seen this sort of behaviour at home, she begins to think 'abuse' is normal."

Some victims even see this sort of aggression by a partner as a sign that they are wanted. This again, points out Makhija, mirrors lack of love and attention at home. "The roots can be traced to childhood."

Children, financial insecurities and even social stigma are often cited as reasons for not leaving an abusive relationship. Sheth talks about a patient who suffered psychological and physical abuse at home. "Her husband had barred her from communicating with her maternal family because they didn't show adequate respect to him. Though the woman's brother and parents encouraged her to leave her husband, she was unwilling because she didn't want to live the 'shame of being a divorcee'."

It's complicated
Rihanna, perhaps defending Brown, said, "We don't often think of abusive men as victims or people who need help, but that's really what they are." This may well be true says Sheth.

"Sometimes abusive partners may be suffering from genuine disorders like paranoia or schizophrenia, or may have faced a major head injury and are therefore, going through bouts of bad temper. They need to be put on medication and in all my cases I have seen it has shown improvement in their behaviour pattern." Medication like anti-Parkinson and asthmatic drugs make people aggressive; insomnia is another major reason for persistent irritability. These "aggressive victims" could also be abusing substances like alcohol or cocaine.

Most often, says Sheth, it's people who show signs of personality disorders — being anti-social to the point of being standoffish (utterly sensitive, self-centred) — who go home and try to control their spouses — or narcissistic personality disorder (full of pride) that bully their partners. "They need serious counselling, but the problem with such cases is that they seldom believe they need help," says Sheth.

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Salman has not threatened anyone, says ACP

Posted: 06 Mar 2013 10:10 AM PST


Additional Commissioner of Police (Western region) Vishwas Nagre Patil has clarified that Salman Khan has not threatened anyone. He however has asked for an investigation report on the Chimbai koli vs Salman Khan case.

Speaking to TOI, Patil said, "As far as Salman Khan is concerned he went to the cottage a long time back and did not threaten anyone. In fact there photographs of him in discussion with people over there. Some of them have even posed for a photograph with him.''

Patil has asked the senior inspector of Bandra police station to submit a report to the DCP.

He said, " the fisher folks were reluctant to give the statement to the senior inspector so I told them not to be scared and requested them to record their statement. I can also say that there is no pressure on us from anyone a fair probe will be done in the case.''

The kolis have alleged that Salman's bodyguards threatened them and even burnt the plastics and wooden planks used for rolling the nets.

Patil said, "Everything needs to be established in the case. The women who came to did say that three security guards got into a scuffle with them but we have yet to establish whether they worked on Salman's property.''

SRK - Aamir flee Twitter terror

Posted: 06 Mar 2013 10:09 AM PST


Nurse wounds inflicted by internet trolls while their teams take the virtual blows

A star and his followers have always had a storybook affair, until social networking empowered the latter with an open platform and a mask of anonymity. To follow a star does not necessarily translate into exchanging terms of endearment. 'Followers' now tweet to berate, bully, abuse or heckle the stars. As Deepa Mehta had said in an interview to this newspaper, it gives the anonymous, armchair critic a sense of empowerment. And no one knows this better than Shah Rukh Khan, who has quit Twitter again, after a fresh surge of attacks brought on by his views on being a Muslim superstar in India.

This is SRK's second boycott of the popular medium after being hounded out by trolls under similar circumstances last year. But the star showed just how vulnerable he still is, when he tweeted: Sad, i read so much judgements, jingoism, religious intolerance on the net & i use to think, this platform will change narrow mindedness, but no!

TOI has learnt that SRK is now putting together a strategy to handle his online presence. He will no longer take the virtual punches on his chin, but his media managers will do the needful.

"Shah Rukh is distraught with the negative energy on Twitter.

The abuses and the vicious attacks on him after every tweet have made him very cynical about the medium," explained a friend of the star. "You can see from his last tweet that he is disillusioned with the medium."

But SRK is not alone. Aamir Khan, who is perhaps not subjected to such intense scrutiny, seems to have taken a break from Twitter because of similar reasons.

"It's been over six months since Aamir has actually updated his Twitter account. He occasionally posts on Facebook, which is linked to his Twitter handle. No one knows about it, but he has actually stopped checking his Twitter account," said a friend close to the actor, adding, "This way he is immune to the negativity of trolls." We believe his team monitors the rest.

Apparently, Aamir's nephew Imran Khan has taken a leaf out of his book. "Imran was being attacked by trolls who were unsparing in their comments on his acting abilities. Imran has not just stopped checking, he has deleted his account," said a source close to the actor.

One could argue that social networking is a double-edged sword. As Ranvir Shorey says, "Stars live in a bubble. The medium grounds them." There are some who use the medium to 'deny' unflattering stories that appear in the media or even settle scores with those with a so-called agenda. There are also others, who are yet to figure out how to deal with the self-styled virtual vigilantes - masked, anonymous and very, very powerful.

Some people just like to abuse famous people on Twitter. You either get used to it or choose to ignore it. When I get such negative tweets, I know only a handful of them are being nasty. —Vir Das

People who send negative energy should know that it doesn't affect anyone but them. So, no it doesn't affect me. A few negative people are easily ignored. —Arjun Rampal

I am not on Twitter for a reason. I don't need to know so much about others, neither do I want to talk about myself there. —Zoya Akhtar