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- Guide to first-time sex for men, Dealing with first night anxiety
- Suraj Pancholi – like father, like son?
- Freida Pinto wears refreshing white for a French magazine shoot
| Guide to first-time sex for men, Dealing with first night anxiety Posted: 11 Jun 2013 11:48 AM PDT  Don't forget the condoms An important thing you need to keep in mind is that you should carry protection whenever on a date or even if you don't think sex is in the offing. Many a times, people don't carry condoms and in the heat of the moment end up having unprotected sex which can lead to unwanted pregnancies or STDs. Click here to find out how to use condoms properly. Enjoy the moment A lot of time sex becomes a sort of an ego game where men are worried about whether they're doing it right and pleasing their women. Stop being nervous and simply enjoy the moment. Forget everything you've ever seen in the movies and porn because that's not real. Just enjoy being with her, remember that it's not a game or something to make you a stud but a close moment with your partner that you will cherish in times to come. Give foreplay the time it deserves One common complaint that women have is that men don't spend enough time on foreplay. What you need to realise is that there's far more to sex than just penetrative sex. Outercourse is an umbrella term that refers to all forms of sexual acts except penetration which includes kissing, foreplay, oral sex, mutual masturbation, necking, dry humping, rubbing, massages, mammary intercourse and much more. A lot of women have trouble reaching orgasm through vaginal intercourse and giving them an orgasm through either fingering or oral sex could be the way to go. Read on to find out more about outercourse. It may hurt Sometimes sex can hurt for the first time. The tip of your penis could be sensitive or it may hurt her. Dyspareunia or pain during sex is a fairly common phenomenon among women; one out of five women experiences it at least once in their lives. Mostly, it's due to lack of lubrication so keep that in mind and keep some handy. Click here to read more about dyspareunia or pain during sex. Don't buy into myths There are a lot of myths about female virginity, the most common being that all women bleed the first time they have sex. People believe that this is due to the hymen breaking, but hymen breakage has nothing to do with virginity. It can break due to vigorous exercise or even due to activities like cycling. And even if your partner's not a virgin, it shouldn't bother you (unless you're a chauvinist male pig). Communicate and ask her what she wants One of the most common problems new couples have in the bedroom is that they don't discuss sex or talk about it. You should do better and talk to your partner about any inhibitions or fears that you or they have about intercourse. Ask them what pleases them and what they expect out of sex. Be frank about your own expectations and explain that it might not be very good the first time but you're going to try your best. Expect issues like premature ejaculation and erection issues Sometimes the pressure of having sex for the very first time might get to you and you could suffer erection issues or premature ejaculation. Premature ejaculation is fairly common because of the way sex feels for the very first time. If you do come too quickly don't worry about it, premature ejaculation should go away in time once your body gets used to rigours of vaginal intercourse. Another issue you could face is a weak or no erection. This is mostly due to the psychological pressure of this being your first time and you shouldn't worry about it because the problem will resolve itself. However, if it does continue you should visit a doctor because erectile dysfunction could be a symptom of diabetes or heart disease. Read more about premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Don't fret if she doesn't orgasm Many women find it hard to ejaculate through vaginal intercourse and the only thing that works for them is clitoral stimulation. It's important to not worry about it. If you find it hard to make her orgasm through vaginal intercourse, you can always try to make her orgasm through oral sex or fingering. Remember that the penis isn't the only sexual organ you have. It will get better… The most important thing you've to keep in mind is that NO ONE is good the first time. Sex like everything else takes practise and you will get better with experience. So don't worry about it and just enjoy your first time. |
| Suraj Pancholi – like father, like son? Posted: 11 Jun 2013 11:48 AM PDT  Cineswami feels columnist Shobhaa De's remark on Suraj and his father Aditya Pancholi in connection with the Jiah Khan suicide might just be true They say that apples don't fall far from the tree and if Suraj Pancholi is indeed found guilty of misdemeanour it just proves that he has his father's genes. For Aditya Pancholi, controversy is his handmaiden, or should we say maid? Gossip columnist Shobhaa De referred to the whole Suraj affair as 'like father, like son' and this just might be true. When Aditya was seeing Pooja Bedi, she accused him of statutory rape of her 15-year-old maid. Aditya's turbulent extramarital relationship with Kangna Ranaut is also well known. It's not just his relationships that Aditya was in the news for. He has a history of violence. Not so long ago, he had an altercation with an airline crewmember when the pilot announced that they could not land in Goa due to bad weather. Separately, Aditya has also had an encounter with a traffic policeman and yet another with a building security guard. There are plenty more if you trawl the news archives. Suraj, thus, has grown up watching his father's infractions and that he's gotten away scot-free every time. Being of a young and impressionable age, perhaps some of his father's aggressive nature has rubbed off on him? As it is Suraj is innocent until proven guilty, it is not for us to judge him, there is a judiciary for that. It's been known to work once in a while. Meanwhile, all we can do is mourn the unfortunate and untimely death of a young woman and send our thoughts and prayers to Jiah Khan's mother Rabia Amin aka Rabiya Khan and the rest of her family. Meanwhile, here is a rare clip of a feisty Rabia from N Chandra's superhit 1986 movie Ankush: |
| Freida Pinto wears refreshing white for a French magazine shoot Posted: 11 Jun 2013 11:48 AM PDT  The Slumdog Millionaire babe opts for pristine white ensembles and teams them up with simple but jaw dropping accessories and illuminating make-up Freida Pinto – the babe set a hot example of how to play around with whites for a recent shoot for a French glossy, Gala. Combining the uplifting monochrome shade with neon colours and nude hues, and adding funky jewellery, the babe kept it minimalistic yet stylish. Oscillating between a sleek and neat ponytail and a diametrically contrasting tousled mop – FP keeps it classy and chic. Ever wondered how orange nail-polish and pink lipstick would look together? This gal plants the seed of this combo by sporting it. We also like the sun-shaped ring she is wearing in one picture. It's these tiny li'l things that get noticed when you wear plain shades and spice up the look in a funky way. The wing-tip eyeliner makes FP look like a femme fatale. The babe totally gets it right with white. And having a toned and a lean bod definitely helps when you are wearing this cellulite magnifying shade… |
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