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Marriage does not have bearing on my work: Vidya Balan

Posted: 07 Jun 2013 11:21 AM PDT


"I am enjoying being married," says Vidya Balan, adding that marriage neither put the brakes on her prizewinning acting career nor does it have any bearing on the kind of roles she would choose in future.

Work-life balance is possible for the actress because the Parineeta girl has found a supportive husband in Siddharth Roy Kapur, managing director of Studios, Disney UTV, with whom she tied the knot at a private ceremony in December last year.

"I am enjoying being married. The good thing is that at the end of the day you get to see each other," she told IANS in an exclusive interview.

Praising Siddharth, she added: "He is very supportive. In fact, I did The Dirty Picture (2011) after we got together."

The 35-year-old doesn't feel marriage will alter the kind of roles she would take up.

"I don't think marriage really has a bearing on that. Both of us respect what the other does. I may choose a role which I feel very strongly about, and he may decide to produce a film which he feels very strongly about. You just respect each other's profession," she said.

And she is willing to do another Dirty Picture.

"The definition of boldness may not be The Dirty Picture. Even Ghanchakkar is a bold role. I believe that there is an extraordinary in the ordinary and I feel that is what films are exploring these days vis-a-vis different characters."

"Having said that, it could be another Dirty Picture also and if I feel strongly about it, I will go and do it," she said.

Post-marriage Ghanchakkar shooting and promotions have been keeping her busy. And she said that she is "enjoying straddling these two worlds".

"At the same time I don't have unreal expectations from myself. There are times when there will be slip ups..."

Also busy with Shaadi Ke Side Effects, she admits work sometimes does not allow her and her husband to spend enough time with each other.

"The amazing thing is that in the six months that we have been married, we have both been travelling a lot. Despite the fact that we live in the same house, we have ended spending lesser time together."

Having said that, the actress admits a certain amount of responsibility comes after marriage.

"I guess both of us are hard working professionals. Around a release or when I am in the middle of shooting, he understands what my pressures are and I understand what his pressures are."

"But, yes, there is a certain responsibility. I am also running a house. I can no longer leave it to my mother to decide what to cook at home," she said.

Come what may, she won't quit acting.

How not to use a condom

Posted: 07 Jun 2013 11:21 AM PDT



Condoms are without a doubt one of the greatest inventions of mankind. Not only are they the most cost-effective way to prevent unwanted pregnancies but also they also stop the transmission of various STDs including the dreaded HIV/AIDS. When used properly, condoms have a 98% success rate! However there are times they can fail. Some of the reasons include improper usage, badly manufactured ones or using expired condoms. We look at some of the ways these miracle devices can fail.
Reason#1: Improper use
While the perfect-use failure rate is only 2%, the typical-use failure rate is 15%. This is mostly because of the mistakes that people usually make when using them. These include:
  • Tearing the packet wrong: Some people tend to rip off the condom packet using their teeth. This can cause tears or breakages in the condom which will lead to a not-so-happy ending.
  • Completely unrolling it: Another common mistake is completely unrolling the condom before putting it on which makes them loose and ineffective.
  • Putting it on wrong: Sometimes people accidentally roll the condom on the wrong way and after realising their mistake then roll it back the right way and use it. This is dangerous because some of the pre-ejaculate material might accidentally get on the outer surface of the condom which can cause pregnancies.
  • Using the wrong lubricant: An important thing you need to keep in mind is you need to use compatible lubricants with condoms. For example if you're using latex ones you should stay away from oil-based lubricants like petroleum jelly, hand lotion or cold cream can damage latex condoms. You should use water-based ones like glycerine or lubricating jellies which can be purchased at most chemist shops.
  • Not squeezing out the air: Before putting on a condom you need to squeeze out the little air bubble in it. Failure to do so can result in the condom breaking.
  • Not leaving space: This issue occurs when guys put it on without leaving some space at the tip for semen which results in breakages.
  • Taking it off before they're done: Some users tend to take it off before they're done which renders the contraception useless.
  • Taking it off too late: Others tend to leave the condom on even after they lose an erection which can result in the sperm seeping out. It's vital to immediately remove and dispose of the condom after use.
Reason#2: Manufacturing and Storage Issues
While the aforementioned reasons are caused by human errors during sex, sometimes condoms can defective as well:
  • Manufacturing Issues: Like other things condoms are man-made and can sometimes have defects when they manufacture. This is why it's important to buy condoms from well-known brands only. Also it's important to make sure you check the packet and see that there are no rips and also that your condom isn't …
  • Past its expiry date: Yes condoms too have an expiry date. It's important to check the packet before you start using them because they tend to lose their elasticity.
  • Storage issues: Most guys store condoms in their pockets which can damage its texture and degrade the latex as can storing them in direct sunlight.
These days most major condom manufacturing companies have stringent measures and tests to check their efficacy. However, if it does break you should immediately contact a doctor about emergency contraceptive pills or buy them over-the-counter. Nowadays, there are pills available that can prevent unwanted pregnancies for up to 72 hours. Remember, the condom is a very powerful tool which lets us control our lives to an extent that simply wasn't possible for our forefathers. Use it wisely.
Watch this video to find out more about condoms and how to put them on properly.
Posted by Sheik Azmol Haque Jony

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