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The love, sex and money problem

Posted: 10 Feb 2013 07:33 AM PST

These three factors are mainly responsible for relationship troubles. Here's how to tackle them

One problem or the other plagues all relationships at some point. While many people decide to ignore their issues and keep hanging on to the relationship, others give up without making any attempt to work it out. While you may feel that you are the one with all the problems, the other person may also have complaints about your behaviour. Here are some problems that are bound to figure on your list and the way to go about solving them.

Sex
If you feel men are the ones who have issues with their sex life, think again. A recent survey says that more than 64% of women are unhappy with their partner's performance in the bed. To keep the chemistry in your relationship intact, talk it out.

- Don't feel shy to admit your issues to your partner. It is likely that your spouse/partner doesn't realise that you are unhappy.
- Spice it up. Ask your partner what he/she would want to be more happy with your bedroom behaviour.
- Consider consulting a therapist. What might seem like a performance issue may actually be a serious problem. Go to a therapist and see if it helps.

Money
Should it be my money or our money? Whether it's before or after marriage, cash can cause a lot of trouble. A recent survey states that more couples now prefer to have separate bank accounts. Is this a healthy trend? Most experts think it is, as long as they pitch in equal amount for household expenses. Here's how you can sort your cash worries:

- Give you partner a clear indication of what you expect out of him/her every month.
- Try to work a system when one can be the saver and the other the spender. Or put aside equal amount for savings.
- But be flexible in case of a cash crunch.
- Don't hide debts from each other.
- Plan your short-term and long-term goals.

Lack of love and communication
Most couples feel that their partner is not affectionate and doesn't listen to them. That's often because neither party wants to sit down and sort out their problems. Talking about relationship issues never seems very important to most people. So, how do you communicate?

- Don't try to fit in your relationship talk between chores. You can't be checking your email or phone while talking to each other.
- To avoid disturbance when you are talking to each other, decide on a time mutually.
- Set some rules. If you feel that either you or your partner can't discuss problems because of anger, find some ways to get through those. Decide before hand that you won't shout at each other; ban words that you feel will hurt you or your partner.
- Be attentive when talking. Don't roll your eyes or slouch when your partner is talking. Your body language should indicate that you are interested in resolving the issues as much as your partner.
- Like your issues seem important to you, your partner, too, needs to get what he/she wants out of the relationship. Don't trivialise his/her issues.

Slime and semen to look beautiful?

Posted: 10 Feb 2013 07:29 AM PST

So, what's Katie Holmes up to now that a certain Mr. Cruise is out of her life, and she doesn't need to go to the Church of Scientology anymore?

Well, she's revelling in her new found single status, and is indulging in some beauty therapy. Albeit, in an ugly way. Yes, she is slathering on snake slime to keep her skin glowing and wrinkle free. Now if that has you grossed out, there's many a celeb beauty secret which will have you go eww, but if you get past that initial reaction, you too might want to go down that road. There's a lot of yuck things that go into making a beautiful face, and no, donkey's milk that had a thousand ships unmooring, sounds lame in comparison.
So let's see what we've got there? Poo and pee, and bull semen too!

Apparently, a hair salon in the UK that styles and shines many a gorgeous crowning glory uses bull semen to give their celebrity clients' hair some extra sheen and strength. Talk of literally sexing up the hair!

Actress Jessica Simpson, among others, keeps beautiful feet as she has hundreds of fish nibbling away the dead skin of her feet. Cougar town faithful Demi Moore keeps herself in may need to thank the leeches for lucking out every time she finds a 'friend' young enough to be her son. She has a detox routine that has leeches drawing out all the toxic blood. And mother Madonna mines the womb to get her beauty fix. She applies face cream that's made out of human placenta.

Victoria and David Beckham, reportedly, have bird droppings in their facials! And, mind you, no ordinary bird poop this; it's got to be what the nightingales drop. Talk about being posh!

That's not all. Thank god that Gwyneth Paltrow does not spew venom with all the snake venom she uses to fight signs of ageing. And Jennifer Love Hewitt does not use toothpaste only for her teeth, just as Sandra Bullock does not have piles but still uses a cream meant for that (Yes, we told you it's gross). And you go figure this one. How crocodile crap and earthworm poop can enhance your beauty. And while you're at it, find out what Vajazzling does to celebs' lady bits.

Salman Khan decides to go for treatment

Posted: 10 Feb 2013 07:27 AM PST

Bollywood star Salman Khan said that he would undertake a long-delayed trip abroad for treatment, which he had put off because of his acting schedule and the blackbuck poaching case in court.

"I had to delay going due to the acting schedules and the court cases. But now I will go," he told the media at a Celebrity Cricket League match in Kochi.

Salman Khan is charged under the Wildlife Protection Act for allegedly poaching a blackbuck in Rajasthan in 1998.

Asked about the case, he said: "I cannot talk about it right now."

The actor, who had a surgery in 2011 for a nerve condition, was earlier scheduled to go to the USA at the end of January, but cancelled it because of his court hearings in Mumbai and Jodhpur.

Salman was detected with trigeminal neuralgia, a neurological disorder, and aneurysm in the brain. While he underwent surgery for trigeminal neuralgia in the US 2011, the aneurysm still exists and he has to go to the US for further treatment.
Posted by Sheik Azmol Haque Jony

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